i bought a spst when the drawing called for a spdt. i have no idea why there is a need for a 5 pined relay that the drawing shows other then for conveince maybe. tonight im going to rig up my origanl relay and it should work fine.

there is a diode in there on the coil side? i think i am using the correct polarity on the coils but i wouldnt have thought there was a diode in there to complicate things. i cant believe im not done yet.... such a simple thing!