IMHO all those kits you linked to should work perfectly fine for the job. The key is to match up the OEM supplier brands and it looked like all the kits did that quite well (few parts in the first 2 kits had non OEM brands but the major parts were correctly matched). Given that the job is fairly involved I would just spend the money on the last kit (below) which has ALL the correct parts and is the most comprehensive.
http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/Toyot...#ht_1556wt_939